I Wasn’t Good Enough. They Let Me In Anyway.

I joined THIRD DAY at 16 without an audition, and for the next three decades I outworked an impostor syndrome I never named. For the 30th Anniversary Tour, I decided to show up differently.

I started playing with THIRD DAY when I was 16 years old.

At the time, I was a million times more passionate about being in a band than I was about developing real discipline on my instrument.

I played bass mostly on instinct. The same way I could pick up an acoustic guitar and find chords, or sit at a piano and figure things out. I had some natural ability, but my extroverted nature pulled me toward collaboration long before it pushed me toward mastery.

Most of my early development happened in the trenches of my youth group band, playing sing-along songs with my middle school friend David Carr. So when THIRD DAY formed, I honestly couldn't believe I got to be in a band with a singer as talented as Mac Powell.

(I still feel the same way.)

Fortunately for me, he lived far enough out in the suburbs that he didn't know many bass players. I think I may have been the only one he'd ever seen. We bass players tend to be a little more exotic creatures than the dime-a-dozen guitar players you'll find at your local Guitar Center!

I joined the band without an audition.

Hard Work Beats Talent

As our platform grew, though, something else grew with it. Impostor syndrome.

"Fake it till you make it" works for a while. But once you make it, you realize faking it isn't a sustainable strategy for a career, or for your soul.

Instead of digging deeper into my musicianship, I threw myself into what came naturally to me: hard work, relationships, and the business side of the band.

I helped design stages. I worked on merchandise. I hired and fired crew members when needed. I threw myself into the operational side of what we were building together. It's what the band needed from me for those formative decades of building the brand.

A few years ago, we interviewed Tim Tebow for our Personal & Professional BEST program at Supreme Lending Southeast Region. He repeated a quote I'd heard before:

Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard.

That could have been my life motto with the band. But underneath my drive was actually insecurity: the dreaded feeling that I was going to be exposed.

I never thought I would be as good as my heroes: Flea from the Red Hot Chili Peppers, Adam Clayton from U2, or Mike Mills from R.E.M. So, I compensated by becoming the hardest-working guy in the organization everywhere else I could contribute.

Showing Up as the Best Version of Myself

For the last decade, I haven't been on the road. Music has mostly been part of my life as a listener. A concert attendee. A vinyl enthusiast. A fan. Not a music creator.

So when conversations began about a 30th anniversary tour celebrating the launch of our very first album, I decided something would be different this time.

I would show up as the BEST version of myself.

Physically. Mentally. Spiritually. And musically.

So, I got to work. I'm still no Flea, but I showed up ready for the tour, and ready to enjoy playing live music with my oldest friends.

At the time I wrote this, I hadn't yet stepped away from my full-time role as Creative Director at Supreme Lending Southeast. I was continuing to speak on marketing and AI disruption. I had just finished the draft of my book Market Like a Rockstar.

My business instincts were getting PLENTY of exercise. And the band didn't need that from me at this point. The band needed a great bass player.

Letting Go of an Identity

Our manager, JP Durant, is one of the most committed and capable people I've ever worked with. He has taken the lead on visuals, merchandise, and logistics for this tour. The result is world-class. However, those had always been the places I expressed my strengths. Dare I say it, my very identity.

Letting go of that wasn't easy. But it gave me somewhere new to put my focus. The music.

The result: impostor syndrome eliminated. My joy each night is on stun!

What I didn't expect was what would happen next, seven shows into the tour. That story is Part 2: When My Work Became Worship.

So I have a question for you

Where are you compensating with hard work for a skill you've been afraid to actually develop?

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Originally published on LinkedIn, April 10, 2026.