Simon Sinek Got One Thing Wrong. Here’s What This Tour Taught Me.
Seventy percent of the way through THIRD DAY's 30th Anniversary Tour, three lessons have risen above the rest, starting with the one thing the Golden Circle leaves out.
When THIRD DAY first started talking about getting back together a couple of years ago for a 30th-anniversary tour, I was excited. And skeptical.
You don't make it to a 30th anniversary tour without at least a little gray hair. Would getting back together feel like trying to get a classic car road-ready again?
THIRD DAY has never performed with pre-recorded tracks. Could a live rock band even hold its own in 2026 in a world where people are literally paying money to watch AI artists perform, whatever that means?
Then rehearsals started. Then the tour started. And I've been completely overwhelmed, in the best possible way, by the experience.
Early on, I made a decision. I put it out there publicly on LinkedIn.
I was going to bring a better version of myself back to the band. One shaped by everything I've learned working in the business world over the last decade.
But I also wanted to stay humble enough to learn something new along the way. And there have been many lessons.
At the same time, I've been putting the finishing touches on a new book called Market Like a Rockstar. At its core, the book is a love letter to fans and a challenge to business professionals.
Too often, we treat marketing like a funnel designed to turn strangers into customers. But the real opportunity is much bigger than that. Great brands don't just create customers. They develop fans.
Fans become your strongest marketing asset.
So during this tour, I've been paying attention.
Watching how fans interact with merchandise in the lobby.
Watching which songs create the biggest emotional reactions.
Watching which moments create a connection.
Watching which stories stay with people after the show ends.
Three lessons have risen above the rest.
Lesson 1: Simon Sinek Missed Something
I love Simon Sinek and his idea of the Golden Circle.
Start with why. Then how. Then what.
It's one of the most helpful communication and leadership frameworks I've ever encountered. But this tour has reminded me of something even more fundamental:
Great bands, and great brands, start with who. I call it The Platinum Circle!
Identity sits at the center of everything.
Before you can live out your mission in the marketplace, your why, you have to build the right team.
This 30th-anniversary tour has been a powerful reminder that the friendships we formed as teenagers remain the foundation on which everything else stands today. Your favorite bands don't have interchangeable members. Neither do the best companies.
Take away leaders like Truett Cathy, Steve Jobs, or Elon Musk and those brands either collapse or never get off the ground in the first place.
Mission matters. Strategy matters. Execution matters. But identity comes first.
Lesson 2: Give the Audience What They Want, but Take Them Somewhere New
When I first told my mentor Glen Jackson about the tour, his first question surprised me: "Are you guys going to play new material?"
I answered a little apologetically:
"No. We're just playing the hits."
He paused thoughtfully and smiled.
"Good. That's the right instinct."
This tour isn't about reinventing who we are. It's about honoring the connection our fans already have with the music. So the setlist is built around the songs they love most, not necessarily the ones we would choose personally. Nearly every song in the setlist was a #1 hit.
But here's the key:
Even while meeting the audience where they are, we've tried to take them somewhere fresh:
New arrangements
Dynamic production
Unexpected moments
A band that's paying attention to what's happening on stage and in the room
The goal isn't repetition. It's renewal.
Great brands do the same thing.
They respect what their audience already loves, and then create new experiences that deepen that connection.
Lesson 3: Don't Miss the Journey
This final lesson may sound simple. But it isn't.
Enjoy the journey.
As I write this, the tour is already nearly 70% complete. And in the words of Steven Tyler, I don't want to miss a thing.
When we were building this band in our twenties and thirties, I spent a lot of time focused on merchandise numbers, box office reports, album sales, and marketing plans. Sometimes shows that should have felt like overwhelming successes, rooms filled with thousands of people, could feel like disappointments on a spreadsheet.
Just like a company has to be profitable in order to continue serving its customers, the same is true with a band. But my focus on the business of the band sometimes stole my joy of being in the band. Not on this tour. This time I'm enjoying every moment.
The friendship. The connection. The privilege of getting to do this again.
I know there are still lessons waiting in the remaining weeks ahead. And I'll keep paying attention so I can share them with you. But these three stand out the most so far.
Start with who.
Give people what they love and take them somewhere new.
Don't miss the journey while you're building something meaningful.
I hope you'll apply them to your work, your leadership, and your life.
So I have a question for you
What's one lesson you're learning on your current journey?
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Originally published on LinkedIn, April 30, 2026.
